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आज के माता पिता अपने बच्चे के विकास के प्रति बहुत जागरूक हैं
बड़ी कक्षाओं में हो रही शिक्षा के प्रति अभिभावकों की विशेष सतर्कता देखने को मिलती है
यदि अभिभावक अपने बच्चे की प्रारंभिक शिक्षा में भी भागीदारी दिखाते हैं तो यह बच्चे के लिए लाभदायक बन सकता है
प्रारंभिक शिक्षा में माता-पिता की भागीदारी के लाभ
उम्र के प्रारंभिक वर्ष बच्चे के विकास के लिए सबसे महत्वपूर्ण वर्ष होते हैं प्रारंभिक शिक्षा में सक्रिय रूप से शामिल होकर माता पिता अपने बच्चे की मदद कर सकते हैं:
माता-पिता की भागीदारी कक्षा के बाहर शिक्षण का विस्तार करने में मदद करती है।
उनकी भागीदारी बच्चों के लिए अधिक सकारात्मक अनुभव पैदा करती है।
भागीदारी से बच्चों को स्कूल में बेहतर प्रदर्शन करने में मदद मिलती है।
किसी भी शैक्षणिक संस्थान द्वारा दी जा रही शिक्षा को यदि बालक अपनी दिनचर्या में देख पाए तो व उसके व्यक्तित्व के विकास में महत्वपूर्ण होता है,
उदाहरण के तौर पर यदि बच्चे को स्कूल में सिखाया जा रहा है की साफ सफाई और खाने से पहले और बाद में हाथ धोना दिनचर्या का महत्वपूर्ण हिस्सा है तो यदि अभिभावक भी बच्चों को घर पर ऐसा ही आचरण करने के लिए कहते हैं तो बच्चा जल्दी इस आदत को अपना लेता है
यदि स्कूल द्वारा बच्चे को विभिन्न आकार या रंग सिखाए जा रहे हैं और अभिभावक घर पर खेल-खेल में बच्चों से रंग और आकार को संबोधित कर बातचीत करते हैं तो बच्चा इनके बारे में जल्दी सीख जाता है
स्कूल और घर का यह कनेक्शन बच्चे के विकास का एक प्रमुख घटक है
यह एक बच्चे को कैसे प्रभावित करता है?
न केवल परिवार या माता-पिता की भागीदारी कक्षा के बाहर शिक्षण का विस्तार करने में मदद करती है;
अपितु यह बच्चों के लिए अधिक सकारात्मक अनुभव बनाता है
और बच्चों को स्कूल में होने पर बेहतर प्रदर्शन करने में मदद करता है।
नए माता-पिता के लिए बच्चे को कौन से स्कूल में भेजना चाहिए यह एक शोध का विषय होता है
इस शोध में आमतौर पर निम्नलिखित प्रश्न शामिल होते हैं:
Thanks for being here. You were a good teacher and a friend to me. You filled my life with adventure. Ticks in the bucket list and new aims for future were some of the achievements.
You made me realise my potential. I realised how important it is to love myself before I love others. You taught me the importance of letting my emotions flow, allowing myself to be me. No shield, no covers. You taught me the essence of love, care and compassion. You gave me the courage to speak, to put my opinion on the matters I strongly feel. I learned the true meaning of love. The glow I carry with me is nothing but the love I receive. I got new family members and friends this year. Regained the old charm of friendship. I started learning to read people with you. You taught me to dance to the music of life. I learnt to accept myself the way I am. You made me realise that everyone in my life has a special place and purpose to play.
I got to meet people, some I am super impressed with and others who taught me why decision making is important. It is you who saved me from overthinking. You will always have a special place in my heart, life and personality.
Diwali Dil Wali – Kind Hearted Act: Different Ways people gave Back To Society this Diwali.
People are doing their effort, it should be counted so that we see an increase in effort next time.
Deepawali, the festival of lights, more popularly known as Diwali, is one of the most enthusiastically celebrated festivals in India. A sense of excitement fills you when you walk on the streets.
There are bright houses all over, covered with lights and decorations. You will find everyone wearing new clothes and greeting each other with sweets and gifts. We Indians celebrate everything with more color and life.
Diwali is symbolic of the victory of light over darkness,good over evil and knowledge over ignorance.
Diwali Dil Wali – Kind Hearted Act: Different Ways people gave Back To Society this Diwali.
And it was such a feeling to see how people acted true to the theme of this festival. There were many small and big groups who celebrated their Diwali in a most noble way.
1. Students donated clothes to underprivileged
It is good to see the younger generation participating actively. Students of many schools collected clothes and distributed the same to the underprivileged. Other than giving away old clothes, some were seen gifting the new clothes to them as gifts.
2. Awareness about Food
Festivals call for a lot of cooking, and sometimes most of it goes to waste. While you will be over-cooking for friends, family, and relatives, there are so many people who will be holding their stomachs in hunger.
I was happy to see people more aware of the surroundings. They were alaert about the wastage of food.
3. Firecrackers, I can hear them!
People were more alert about not using crackers after 10 pm. There is a scope of a lot of improvement, still each little effort should be counted. Not everyone was vigilant about the noise created by the fire crackers, still the number is increasing. Thanks to the climate and the awareness among people, pollutants in the air is also less.
4. Diya back in action
Awareness among the people and the efforts done by state government to increase the purchase of Diya, indian clay lamps was a conscious step towards betterment of Diya makers. It also boosted the Eco Friendly approach to celebrate Diwali.
My children to do it when they grow, but I can’t .
Don’t know anyone there, I will be alone.
What will others think when they see me going like a tortoise?
Lets run! It is tough, or is it?
I was bombarded with many more questions last week when Lets run, CG’s First Runners Community, featured me. They called me runner when I was just running for myself.
*They called me runner when I was just running for myself.
**They called me runner when I was just running for myself.
It is not a typo mistake. You are reading it right. That is how they operate. Yes, you are still reading it right. They operate that way.
So much of enthusiasm and cooperation in and around team. They don’t let anyone feel left out. Other than being part of two 100 days of running, I participated in the marathon organised by them twice. And you can take it from me it was well managed and disciplined. Best part being always on time.
Source of all these questions is this one page from lets run
Featured Runner
Roshni Shukla
A kindergarten teacher, part time house maker and mother of two. Yes, I do Run around my kids at home and school, but that is all.
– NOPE our Featured runners is a strong girl who took 100 days running challenge and dusted it.
Lets run, CG’s First Runners Community – they call themselves Passionate about running. They have some fixed days for Runs /Workouts. All Runs / Workouts schedule are posted on their Facebook page.
This is my experience with the run. I grew stronger after every attempt.
Now for those who are tempted to make an amazing memory, I have good news, Lets run is organizing a bigger event this time by the name The Great Chhattisgarh Run – TGCG. It is on 17th November 2019.
Now coming back to questions asked by people who got to know about me being featured runner.
My answer to them would be:
It is tough? —> It is not, if you really want to do it.
Will I be able to finish it? —> Yes, you will for sure. You will get a lot of encouragement en route.
But, I am not as fit as you? —>You can not judge your fitness before trying. Simple.
Don’t even exercise? —> It’s ok, you can always start it.
I want my children to do it when they grow, but I can’t. —> You can, so can your child. To increase your comfort, let me tell you, my son did his first 6 km at the age of 6 the same day when I was doing mine. My daughter did her first 6 km skating much before she turned 6. Lets run events could be safest exposure you could give to your child.
Don’t know anyone there, I will be alone. —> No, you will not be alone. There will be many to give you company if you really need it. Else take your friends and family. Marathon could be a good theme based meeting point for your circle.
What will others think when they see me going like a tortoise? —> If you think you will be a tortoise, don’t worry, the event will stay open till the last tortoise crosses the finish line.
You might find me there to cheer you up, if at all you are one of those tortoises. Hoping to meet you in the upcoming event.
Just do it. Give it a try to answer yourself.
Every man’s life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one man from another.
Toys, Do children need a room full of toys? Rethink. This is how I evaluate myself every time when I pass by a toy store and my two sets of twinkling eyes look at me with so much of hope and excitement. But Thanks to God, my children now understand, they don’t need to own every toy they see in the market.
Best place for all of us to visit with kids could be Disney land. The best place for a child in a shopping complex could be a toy shop or a play zone. That in a resort could be play arena. The best place in playschool may be toys rooms.
But have we ever wondered why Sports Room, in a formal school, never comes under this lists of favorites?
Just go back in time, and what did we find? It was the sports ground that was always at the top in the list of favorite places to be in a school.
Best sources of toys at home:
Children get toys, from their family, friends and now a days even food joints like McDonalds. They play with these toys for a while and then it occupies a space in their almirah.
It is not that kids don’t play with their toys, they do.
Your child might have an almirah full of toys, due to two reasons:
It’s the best gift that makes a child happy.
It’s the best thing we provide as compensation.
Some of us also have a notion, that if a child possess more toys means he is happy.
But we sometimes miss the point, what kind of toy does your child need.
And What is the thing that our children ask for?
Answer: Time to play.
Our children need time to play. They need time to go out and play in open. Also time to play and get dirty in soil, and this stays true for all ages.
Just give them time to play, they will be happier.
Life, Nothing Sad. Deleting everything sad from Life – Happy Heart Forever. I am sitting on a swing. A swing that I always see from my window. But, I never thought I would ever get a chance to come here and sit. Today I am here right now. And the only thought that is repeatedly coming to my mind is about all the experiences of my life that were hurting.
I understand that Life is a mixed experience of emotions and it starts from the very first day. The day we are born. We cry to fulfill our needs, we learn. If we like or are pleased with something, we smile, we laugh. We learn to crawl, walk. After falling several times while trying, we learn. We understood that we do not want to walk in rough surface, because it hurts, we learn this and we grow. We learn and we grow.
When we try to recollect, some events we remember, some we don’t. We know that if we touch hot oil, we will get burnt. We know if we touch a live wire, we will get shock. Some learning we get by achievements, some by failures. But we learn. And surprisingly, at later stages of life, we don’t remember the reason for the learning in most of the cases.
I also know that life is a mix of many emotions happiness, sadness, disgust, fear, surprise, and anger, pride, shame, embarrassment, excitement and many more.
I know this all. This is what I have heard. This is what all of us have heard. Time and again. It’s life. These emotions are different colours of this life, and whatnot.
If someone asks you to recall event for your life related to each section. Can you?
When I asked this question to myself, I could not answer. Ok, some credit surely goes to memory. But still.
What I remembered, were the incidents when I was hurt. But surprisingly, not by things , but by the people. And again today while recalling it hurts. What I remembered, were some good times I spent with people around. Every memory brings back some emotions.
But, what I noticed, was that, all the good memories stayed for little and the emotional baggage of hurt and pain stayed for a comparatively longer time.
What if we find an option of select all and delete?
I would have deleted all the memories associated with pain, hurt, agony and all similar kind.
And just kept the nice one if I get the choice.
I have heard that whatever you pray to God, looking at the rising Sun, at the break of the very first ray, that wish is granted.
Oh God, please select all sad, bad, painful and hurting memories from my past. I don’t want to have any of them in my mind. I don’t want to remember about places, people, incidents,situations or anything that is related to those unhappy experiences.
Please God, Select All ( sad, bad, painful, hurting memories) and delete.
I sat there, watching the sky change colours, people passed by me. Swinging slowly, I was so relieved, so happy, after seeing that colourful sky, I felt my life is also full of colours. I am so happy.
It is 7:30am, I should go back and get ready for office. Today I have to take care of a new presentation submitted by the finance department.
From here my apartment looks good.
I have walked for 5 mins, but I am not able to find the gate, which stays open till 7:30 am. No worries, I will check all the three gates. It’s taking time, but it’s good to walk.
Finally, I am at my apartment and it is just seven floors to my flat.
Guard, why is this lift not working?
Mam, it’s under maintenance.
From when? I remember it was working fine.
No Mam, it is not working from past 5 days. Cable and some parts needs replacement. We circulated the notice Mam.
You didn’t get it to me.
See Mam, you have signed. You must have forgotten about it. Sorry for inconvenience.
Oh! It’s ok. I will take the stairs. It is anyhow healthy.
I came inside my house. While combing I realised, non of my memories have any association to hurt. It Sounds strange, but I think my prayer is answered.
Select all delete.
There goes all the painfully unwanted memories. With that goes the learning. With that goes the awareness to avoid the same situations next time.
I am left with good experiences, were it is just love, happiness and joy of life.
Now my past is all set and clearly Happy on records.
But now as my present is full of mixed emotions, no past learning and unaware of how to deal with tricky situations, So I don’t know how to cope with setbacks.
I have no idea of how to get back to track, as I have no records of any such learning in my whole life. I have no memories or experience of my field of expertise. Finance. All those long hours of work, all those tricky cases, special tricks and tips, everything is erased, deleted.
Oh God! What have I done. I tried to edit my past and landed up spoiling my present. To made the past look Happy I unlearned lessons given by life. This unlearning is spoiling my present life.
No I don’t want it, no, I don’t want it this way. I don’t want things this way anymore.
I am shouting my throat out but, God is not listening. Please God. Please , I need my lessons. I need my life learnings.
Alarm started to ring,
4:30am.
All sweaty, breathing fast I opened my eyes, and realised it was a dream. A dream that felt real, than the reality.
And it came with a life lesson. I have to embrace all scars, all bad memories. And I have to learn a lesson from them. I should stay happy for, I graduated from them.
Life is what it is. Take it will both arms open. It gives us joy, it gives us happiness. it gives us pain, hurt, anger etc.
What we can do is, accept everything. And have a constant belief in self.
When things get rough, remember, it’s the rubbing that brings out the shine.
We all face hard times. We all fall and fiail. So let’s have strength deep inside us, to compose ourselves and stand again.
Let’s spread love and happiness in the world.
And please, comment if you also want to remember only happy incidents in your like. Please comment if you have any suggestions.
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Now lizards make her smile. This is story of a queen who was affraid of lizards. She was affraid to such an extent that she would never go to a room if she finds about any lizard ln that room.
Now lizards make her smile.
Queen was affraid of lizards to the extent that she never entered the room, if she knew there was one in the room, she still is.
She still is affraid of lizards.
But now she smiles when she finds a lizard in room.
Her friends asked her this valentine’s day,
” Dear, what is the most romantic date you had with your husband?”
She thought for some time, as she never went to a date. She had no answer. Actually had nothing to say related to this.
She was searching for some answer in her head.
She smiled and replied with twinkling eyes
” He takes care of every lizard issue at home. That’s my date, every day.”
I am affraid of lizards. Some of my friends are affraid rabbits. Some are affraid of honeybees. And some of frogs. We don’t like to be around these beings, because we are not comfortable with there presence. If you are too, comment below and tell how you react when you see one. If you are affraid of some other creepy crawly, please comment and tell us what it is and share how you react on seeing it.
Please give your opinion on: Is going to a date, having fancy dinners, visiting different romantic destinations, the only way to know your partner loves you? Or do you believe there can be some sweet nothings that can be counted to know that life is smiling back to us.
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