Road To Healthy Eating*

The road to healthy eating* is easy with delicious recipes from Food Network. Let’s Find Out About Healthy Eating.

The road to healthy eating is easy with delicious recipes from Food Network. Let’s Find Out About Healthy Eating.

Healthy Eating*-Fabulous Food

Have you ever wondered why you get hungry? Your body needs healthy food, and there are many reasons for this.

Healthy food keeps your body working properly.

Why do you eat?

You need food to give energy to play, and do what you want to do. Your body even needs to sleep!

What are calories?

Some kinds of food give you lots of energy. The energy in food is measured in units called calories. Food that is high in energy has a lot of calories.

How are you feeling?

If you want to stay well, you need to eat healthy food. Eating too much of the wrong kind of food can make you ill. 

If you are unwell, eating good food may help you get better.

Why should you try to eat healthy food?

Fresh food is usually better for you as it contains more of the essential vitamins and minerals you need. Try to eat as much fresh food as you can. 

Children need to eat healthy food to grow.

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Healthy Eating*- Eat your five-a-day

You need to eat five portions of fruit and vegetables a day. A portion is a whole piece of fruit, a serving of one vegetable or a fruit juice drink.

What are vitamins and minerals?

Vitamins and minerals are nutrients that are found in fruits and vegetables. They help to keep you fit.

Vitamins and minerals help you to grow.

 Eating plenty of fruit and vegetables can help to prevent heart disease. It will also help to keep your digestive system healthy.

What is the meaning of nutrients?

A nutrient is a natural chemical in food. Nutrients help you to grow and stay healthy.

What is fibre?

Some food is hard to digest. This means it takes a while to pass through your body. Fibre is a nutrient that helps digestion. It is found in many fruits and leafy vegetables. 

Fruits and vegetables contains fibre.

What should you do if you don’t like fruit or vegetables?

Try drinking fruit juice – a pure fruit juice counts as one portion of fruit and vegetables. As you get older, you may find that you like them!

Healthy Eating*- Food for life

You need energy to get fit and keep your body healthy. Some high-energy foods help you stay active for longer.

What are carbohydrates?

Carbohydrates are foods that are high in energy. They are very filling, and stop you from feeling hungry again for a while.

Foods that contain carbohydrates include bread, rice, pasta and potatoes.

Playing sport uses up energy, which makes you hungry. You need to eat to get your strength back. 

What are pulses?

Pulses are seeds that grow inside plant pods, for example beans and lentils. Pulses add proteins to your diet, especially if you don’t eat meat. 

What are whole grains?

Try to include whole grains like wheat, barley and oats in your  diet. Whole grains are natural, and are not processed in a factory. They are a good source of fibre, vitamins and protein.

What types of food give you energy?

Carbohydrates provide most of the energy you need. Your body breaks them down into glucose, a type of sugar that the body can use for energy. 

Healthy Eating*- Do you drink milk?

Dairy foods come from farm animals that produce milk, such as cows and goats. Cheese and yoghurt are made from milk, and are kinds of dairy food.

What’s the alternative?

Some people choose not to eat dairy foods, or they can’t because they are allergic to them. There are lots of different milk substitutes, including soya milk and rice milk. 

Dairy foods contain a nutrient called calcium, which is good for your bones and teeth.

Some people prefer to drink soya milk. Soya is a vegetable product.

Are eggs dairy food?

Eggs are not a kind of dairy food, but they are not meat either. They are an animal protein, which helps your muscles and bones to grow.

Free-range chickens are farmed in a natural way, and can go outside to find food.

Why are dairy foods good for you?

Dairy foods contain calcium, which helps your teeth and bones to grow and stay strong. Children need more calcium than adults because their bodies are still growing.

What is food allergy?

If you are allergic to some food item, you have a sensitive reaction to it.

The road to healthy eating

Healthy Eating*- Eating meat

Meat is good for you because it contains protein. This nutrient helps you grow and  repairs damage to your body.

Meat can be an important part of a healthy diet.

What kinds of meat are there?

Red meat includes beef and lamb, and white meat includes chicken and pork. Most fast food meals contain processed meat. This is made from meat, but has other foods added to it.

Do you like meat?

A small amount of meat is good for you, but don’t eat too much every day. Many shops sell alternatives to meat, such as soya and tofu.

Many burgers contain meat, but they are also full of fat and salt. Don’t eat them everyday.

Cows provide lots of our food. Milk, butter, cheese and beef all come from cows.  

What is a vegetarian?

Vegetarians never eat meat. If they are careful about what they do eat, they can still have a balanced diet.

What is a vegan?

Vegans are vegetarians who don’t eat any animal products. They don’t eat eggs or cheese, or drink milk. Many don’t wear leather or wool, or eat honey as it’s made by animals. They get all the nutrients from vegetable products.

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Healthy Eating*- Do you eat fish?

It is a good idea to eat fish twice a week. One of your fishy meals should include oily fish, such as kippers, salmon and sardines. Oily fish are full of healthy nutrients. 

Oily fish contains vitamins that are good for your eyes, skin, hair, bones and teeth.

Why choose fish?

Eating fish adds protein to your diet. Fish are also rich in minerals, and are not as fattening as some meats, for example pork and lamb.

Which fish is best?

The oil in oily fish is called unsaturated fat. It contains a nutrient called omega 3, which helps your heart to stay healthy. It also helps different parts of your body to work well, for example your brain. 

Eating oily fish is good for your brain, and may help you to concentrate on your work.

What are unsaturated fat?

This kind of fat is liquid at room temperature, and can be good for your heart.

Why is fish good for you?

Fish is full of healthy vitamins, minerals and proteins. Oily fish contains a healthy kind of fat that is good for your heart and brain.

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Healthy Eating*- What are fatty foods?

You don’t need much fat in your diet. The two main kinds of fat are saturated and unsaturated fats. Unsaturated fats are better for you than saturated fats.

What shall I eat?

When you can, try to choose foods that are made with unsaturated fats. For example, eat nuts instead of crisps.

Doughnuts contain saturated fat. They should only be eaten as a treat. 

Biscuits, cakes and chocolate contain saturated fats. 

Nuts and olive oil are good sources of unsaturated fats.

Sweet potatoes have more nutrients than ordinary potatoes.

Why should you try not to eat fatty snacks?

Snacks that are full of saturated fats are bad for your heart. Fatty snacks can make you put on weight. Choose a healthy snack instead, such as a piece of fruit.

Is It fattening?

Fatty foods give you energy, but make you put on weight if you eat too much. Starchy foods, for example sweet potatoes, fruit and vegetables, are also high in energy, but much less fattening. 

Snack attack

Sugar and salt are often added to food to make it taste nicer, but you don’t need lots of sugar and salt in your diet. Too much sugar will rot your teeth, and too much salt is bad for your health.

Many snacks contain salt and sugar. 

Avoid tooth decay

Try not to have too many sugary foods and drinks. Sugar that is left in your mouth turns into a sticky substance called plaque, which can cause tooth decay. 

Clean your teeth about one hour after you eat sweets.

Does it need salt?

Many convenience foods are very salty. You don’t need to add extra salt. A salty diet may lead to heart problems.

Oven chips are a type of convenience food.

Why do manufacturers add salt to food?

Adding salt to food is a good way of making it last longer. Throughout history it was used as a way of storing food. It also improves the flavour of some food.

Make a choice

Not all snacks contain added sugar or salt. Next time you are hungry, try eating some fruit, plain popcorn, unsalted peanuts or breadsticks.

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Healthy Eating*- Drink up

You need to eat, but you also need to drink in order for your body to work properly. About two-third of your body is made up of water!

Try to drink at least one or two litres of water a day. Don’t have too many sugary drinks.

It is a good idea to drink water before and after doing something very energetic.

Use this water intake calculator to find out how many cups of water you should drink each day.

Are you thirsty?

When you exercise, you sweat and your body loses water. This makes you thirsty. You also sweat when it is hot, so you should drink more on warm summer days.

How does your body tell you that you need a drink?

When the body needs liquid, your mouth feels dry and you feel thirsty. You need to drink some water to replace the liquid your body has used.

What happens when you sweat?

When you sweat, moisture comes out of your skin. You may feel hot and sticky.

Can you eat water?

Fruit contains water, and is good to eat. About half of the water you consume is in the food you eat, and the rest is in drinks.

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What is a balanced diet?

You should eat three meals every day, with one or two healthy snacks and lots of water. Remember to eat food from each of the five different food groups for a balanced diet.

This picture shows how much of each food group you should eat. For example, eat lots of fruits and vegetables, but not much fat or sugar. 

Have you had enough?

It is important to have the right kind of food, but also the right amount. Eating too much or too little can make you ill.

Off the menu?

Some people don’t eat particular foods for religious reasons. For example, Jewish people do not eat pork and Hindus do not eat beef. They can still have a healthy diet. 

Why is it important to eat a balanced diet?

A balanced diet will give you all the different nutrients you need to stay healthy. Eat lots of different kinds of food, from each of the five main food groups. Don’t be a fussy eater!

Are you hungry?

Don’t fill up on fatty snacks between meals. Instead, choose high-fibre snacks. They stop you feeling hungry, because they take a long time to digest.

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Before having my son, I was determined!

Before having my son, I was determined to have a clean, tidy and organised living room 24×7 unlike the ones I had seen, taken over by toys.

But like all the other things I said, I would never do, it was difficult to avoid, once I was a parent. And I am thankful to God for having such a loving and caring family members. My children have always got all their best toys as gifts.

I have always tried to curtail their collection of toys. As a toddler, he had spent most of his time at home, playing with mixing bowl and measuring cups.

Before having my son, I was determined to have a clean living room 24×7.

As I watched him enjoying and playing with gift boxes and wrappings while ignoring the toys inside, I became curious about how many toys kids actually need. So I decided to do some research. Thanks to Google, I got answers to all my questions. 

As a mother, I am putting down all my finding related to toys, parenting, food and everything that a parent need to this blog. This will satisfy your curiosity and save your time.

Before having my son, I was determined to have a clean, tidy and organised house. here are all my finding to satisfy your curiosity and save your time.
As a mother, I am putting down all my finding related to toys, to this blog. This will satisfy your curiosity and save your time.

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Please Do read the part 1, to know the list of  occasions we buy toys.

Do read the part 2, list of mindset while buying the toys.

and Do read Part 3 of 3, Points to keep in mind while taking the final decision at the store.

A Happy childhood is the most precious gift we can give to our child.

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बच्चा खाना* खाना नहीं चाहता है?

क्या होगा अगर मेरा बच्चा खाना* खाना नहीं चाहता है? कई बार बच्चे खाना* नहीं खाना चाहते। वह अब सुस्त और गुमसुम सा रहता है। ज्यादा देर खेलता भी नहीं। पूरे दिन चिड़चिड़े से रहते है। शाम को खेलने या पड़ने में मन नहीं लगता। इस तरह की समस्या के समाधान दो आसान उपाय हो सकते हैं।

अनिल एक बहुत चंचल बच्चा है, क्लास में भी हर गतिविधि में बाकी बच्चों कि ही तरह भाग लेता रहा है। घर में भी उसे देख कर किसी को खास चिंता नहीं होती थी। मगर पिछले तीन चार महीनों से उसकी ये आदतें बदल सी गई है। वह अब सुस्त और गुमसुम सा रहता है। ज्यादा देर खेलता भी नहीं। पूरे दिन चिडचिड़ा सा रहता है। अब शाम को खेलने या पड़ने में भी उसका मन नहीं लगता। अनिल के घर वाले ये सब महसूस कर रहे हैं। 

क्या होगा अगर मेरा बच्चा खाना* खाना नहीं चाहता है? वह अब सुस्त और गुमसुम सा रहता है। इस तरह की समस्या के समाधान दो आसान उपाय हो सकते हैं।

क्या होगा अगर बच्चा खाना* नहीं खाना चाहते?

अब इस तरह की समस्या के समाधान दो आसान उपाय हो सकते हैं। 

1. यह निश्चित करना की बच्चा बीमार नहीं है या पेट में कीड़े नहीं है, आप डॉक्टर से परामर्श  करें।

2. क्या बच्चे की दिनचर्या में ऐसा कोई बदलाव आया है, जिसके कारण वो ऐसा कर रहा है। 

पहली स्थिति में तो डॉक्टर के दिए दिशा निर्देशों का पालन करें। दूसरी स्थिति में बहुत से कारण हो सकते हैं।

जिनमे से सबसे आसानी के सुधार पाने वाला कारण भोजन  से सम्बन्धित हो सकता है।

यदि हाल ही में आपके बच्चे की खुराक में बदलाव आया है तो

यह भी व्यवहार में बदलाव का कारण हो सकता है। 

बच्चे की बदलती खुराक के कई कारण हो सकते हैं:

  • उनका मूड – वह थका हुआ, परेशान या उत्तेजित महसूस करेगा तो उनकी खुराक में बदलाव होगा। 
  •   उनकी सेहत : बच्चों की सेहत ठीक नहीं होने पर भी उनकी खुराक कम हो जाती है। ऐसे में जब बच्चे ठीक हो जाते हैं, तो वापस खुराक में सुधार आने लगता है। 
  • दिन का समय: यदि हर दिन भोजन करने के समय में बदलाव आता है, तो खुराक भी अलग हो सकती है। 
  • भोजन के प्रकार की पेशकश: परोसे गए भोजन का भी खुराक पर असर होता है। यदि बच्चे ने नाश्ता बहुत सारा या गरिष्ट किया है तो भी उस भूख कम लगेगी। भोजन बच्चे की पसंद का है या नहीं यह भी खुराक में बदलाव लाता है।
  • वे कितने सक्रिय हैं। यदि बच्चा सामान्य रूप से खेलता है या दिन में ज्यादा समय बैठ कर बीतता है तो दोनो स्थिति में उसकी खुराक में अंतर होगा।

  • यदि आपका बच्चा कभी-कभी भोजन नहीं करता या बहुत कम खाता है तो यह ठीक है।
  • एक बार का भोजन या स्नैक  छूट जाने से बच्चे के स्वास्थ को नुकसान नहीं पहुंचता। “नहीं” कहना आपके बच्चे की पसंद या आज़ादी का तरीका भी है।
  • यदि आपका बच्चा खाने के लिए नहीं बैठ सकता है, तो भोजन या नाश्ते से पहले कुछ समय उस शांत वातावरण दें।
  • भोजन के समय को शांत रखें और टीवी, सेल फोन, टैबलेट और कंप्यूटर बंद कर दें।
  • खाने के लिए पुरस्कार के रूप में मिठाई या पसंदीदा भोजन का उपयोग करना आवश्यक नहीं है।
  • यदि आपका बच्चा भोजन पसंद नहीं करता है, या खाना नहीं चाहता है, तो भोजन को हटा दें और 1 से 2 घंटे बाद एक स्वस्थ नाश्ता पेश करें।

इस तरह उस धीरे से ये समझ में आएगा कि खाना हर समय उपलब्ध नहीं होगा।

उस जब भोजन परोसा गया है, तब नहीं खाने पर, फिर उसे अगले कुछ घंटे कुछ नहीं मिलेगा।

इस तरह उसकी आदत पड़ जाएगी।

शुरू में ऐसा करना थोड़ा कठिन होगा या अच्छा नहीं लगेगा,

मगर, एक दो हफ्ते में बच्चे की खुराक और आदतों में बदलाव जरूर आयेगा।

मां के दिमाग में आने वाले कुछ और सवाल – 

अपने और बच्चे के  जीवन को आसान करने के लिए आप सभी को शुभकामनाएं

Happy childhood is every child’s right.

All the best wishes to you on this amazing journey. This will surely give us easy life.

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बच्चे को कब खाना परोसना चाहिए?

खाना? मुझे अपने बच्चे को कब खाना परोसना चाहिए?

खाना? मुझे अपने बच्चे को कब खाना परोसना चाहिए?बच्चों को खाना खिलाना, मां का दिन भर का सबसे बड़ा काम हो सकता है, और सबसे ज्यादा समय लेने वाला भी। इसी बीच जब बच्चे की थाली परोस दी गई है, पर वह नहीं खाता तो, मां, दिन भर उसके खाने की चिंता करती रहती है। ऐसे में एक प्रश्न जो मां के दिमाग में आता है –

मुझे अपने बच्चे को कब खाना परोसना चाहिए?

अक्सर इस प्रश्न के कई तरह के उत्तर मिलते हैं, जो, आस पास के लोग या घर के बड़ों के हम तक पहुंचते हैं।

अक्सर हम पूरे समय बच्चे के पीछे खाना लेकर घूमते रहते हैं। और कई बार हम बच्चे को जबरदस्ती खिलते है।

मुझे अपने बच्चे को कब खाना परोसना चाहिए?

अब आप ये तरीके भी अपनाकर देखें।

  • पूरे दिन खाने के लिए पीछे भागने के बदले, अपने बच्चे को दिन में 3 बार नाश्ता और 2 बार पूरा भोजन दें। 
  • हर दिन लगभग एक ही समय पर भोजन और नाश्ता परोसने का प्रयास करें। 
  • भोजन और नाश्ते का एक योजना बद्ध अनुकरण आपके बच्चे में खाने की आदतों को विकसित करने में मदद कर सकती है।
  • आपके बच्चे को आपके मुकाबले खाने में अधिक समय लग सकता है।
  •  उन्हें खाने को खत्म करने का समय दें। 
  • यदि आपको लगता है कि बच्चे का खाने में मन नहीं लग रहा और वो खाने से खेल कर रहा है, तो उसके सामने के खाना हटा दें, और उसको मेज से उतर कर खेलने छोड़ दें। 
  • इस तरह धीरे से बच्चा ये समझ जाएगा कि खेलना और खाना एक साथ नहीं हो सकता।
  • यदि बच्चे को कोई स्वस्थ से सम्बन्धित दिक्कत नहीं है, और वह रोज खेल कूद कर रहा है तो निश्चित रहें।
  •  बच्चे कभी भी भूखे नहीं रहते, वो अपनी आवशयकताओं के अनुसार खा लेते हैं।
  • बच्चे को दिन भर ना खिलाएं, इससे उन्हें भूख का अहसास नहीं होता।

Happy childhood is every child’s right.

All the best wishes to you on this amazing journey. This will surely give us easy life.

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Appetite of your child worrying you?

Appetite of your child? How much food my child needs?

Appetite of child. How much food my child needs? Parents worry everyday when they server children food to their child. it is a constant issue
Appetite of child. How much food my child needs? Parents worry everyday when they server children food to their child. it is a constant issue. Photo by Tiago Pereira on Pexels.com

Appetite of your child makes you worry?

How much food my child needs? This is one more question that arises in parent’s mind everyday when they server them any of the meals. How much food my child needs?This question also pops up when people enquire and compare their child with other children.

How much food my child needs?

Healthy eating habits and stress free childhood is an indicator of healthy parenting, in the world of parenting.

The appetite of young children can change from one day to the next. 

Parent’s mindsets while serving food to their child:

 As parents or caregivers, you decide:

  • What kind of food we serve to our child. : As mother it becomes tough to choose between the healthy food that we want to serve to our children and whatever he eats.
  • What time of day are we serving food. As mothers, we just always look for a chance to feed our children. Feeding children is a full time project for any mother.
  • the place where the food will be served: that is a trick point. For most of the mothers, it is wherever child sits to eat. But honestly, especially in toddlers case, they never sit in one place, long enough to finish their meal.

Your child decides:

  • among all the food that is served, which ones are worth eating. And which are not appealing and can be rejected by showing tantrums.
  • how much should I eat: they also decide how hungry they are and what amount of food is ok for them.

How much food my child needs?

We will get the answer by trying the following ways which will increase your child’s appetite, and make you happy parents.

  • Start feeding your child in small amounts and let them re-ask if needed. Your child will respond according to his need.
  • Occasionally, your child will starve and eat a lot. So, give him the second serving. This way he will not see full plate at a time.
  • He  will eat less when not much Hungry. This is normal. If your child is not hungry, do not pressurize or bribe him to eat or to finish the meal.
  • Do not serve many munching in between, that reduces his craving for food at the time of meal.
  • If your child is active and happy then there is nothing to worry about. A starving child will not be active and happy throughout the day.
  • During the meal time if your child denied eating, please take away the food. Do not ask or pressurized him for eating for another 1-2hours. He will surely eat the next time you offer him.
  • Timely eating will also help in knowing the answer to your question.
  • If you still have any questions about your child’s development or hunger, talk to your doctor.

Happy childhood is every child’s right.

All the best wishes to you on this amazing journey. This will surely give us easy life.

If these tips help you in finding your answer, please comment. You can also comment, if you are having any other questions related to parenting. 

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Teach children to enjoy food

As parents, we can teach our children to eat and enjoy food. It will make our lives easier. These ways will be helpful to every mother, in building healthy eating habit.

Enjoy food. Eat properly. Mothers say this most of the times.

What can I do to help my child eat well? There is a question that always pops in my mind and to every parent at some point of time. How will my child eat well.

There is no fixed answer to this question, but there is a list of ways, that can surely help in solving this problem.

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  • Sit and eat with your child and serve every thing in small portions, that you have served in your plate.
  • Show your child what eating healthy is like. You are your child’s best role model. They will learn to eat and explore new foods by watching what you do.
  • Offer new foods many times. They often need to see, smell and touch a food many times before tasting it.
  • Your child may need to taste a food many times before they eat it. So,Continue to offer new foods and include foods your child has refused in the past.
  • Give your child enough time to eat.
  • Young children learn by touching, smelling and looking at foods.
  • Give your child time to learn about the foods you offer. Learning to use a spoon and fork also takes time.
  • Plan time to sit and eat slowly with your child.
  • Making Mess at home is also part of learning.
  • Try offering the same food in different ways.
  • Be patient and keep giving your child foods made in different ways: raw, cooked (steamed, roasted), in stews, soups and sauces.
  • If your child likes vegetables cooked a certain way, give them other vegetables made that same way.
  • Offer new foods with foods your child already likes.
  • Offer new foods often and serve them with food that your child likes.
  • If your child doesn’t want to eat or eats very little for a meal, offer a healthy snack 1 to 2 hours later.
  • Making a different meal for your child will not help them become a healthy eater.
  • Sometimes young children only want to eat the same foods over and over again. It is normal and may last for a few weeks or months.
  • If the “favourite” food is healthy then continue to offer it along with a variety of other healthy foods.
  • If the “favourite” food is a less healthy option,then give it to your child less often.

As parents, we can teach them to enjoy food and it will make our lives easy.

Wishing you happy parenting, that leads to happier you.

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Unfinished Tiffin! This might help.

Unfinished Tiffin! This might help.जब आपका बच्चा स्कूल से टिफिन/ lunch box/tiffin खाए बिना वापस आए तो इस्तेमाल करें यह 7 युक्तियां। Healthy parenting and healthy eating habits go hand in hand. This is also part of early childhood development. Let’s provide healthy childhood to our younger lot, who have just started going to playgroup, kindergarten, pre school or has just shifted from daycare to formal school.

Unfinished tiffin! Follow these seven tips, to get a finished tiffin back home.

1. मां- मेरी बेटी किंडरगार्टन के पहले वर्ष में है। वह स्कूल से टिफिन/tiffin खा कर नहीं आती,क्या करूं? बच्चा – स्कूल बच्चे के लिए नई जगह है, हर बच्चा अलग तरह से एडजस्ट करने की कोशिश कर रहा है।

कुछ नए माहौल में अपनी मां को खोजते हैं, क्योंकि या तो उन्हें अपने आप खाने के आदत नहीं होती/ उस समय खाने की आदत नहीं होती।

टिफिन/tiffin से खाना समझ नहीं आता/ दूसरे की टिफिन में कुछ ज्यादा अच्छा दिखता।

इतने सारे नए चहरे दिखते हैं कि घर की याद में समझ नहीं आता क्या करें।

इ सके अलावा और भी कारण हो सकते हैं। ऐसी परिस्थतियों में टीचर स्कूल में प्रयास करती होंगी।

फिर भी कई बार बच्चे नहीं खाते।

घर लौटते तक भूख से इतने परेशान हो जाते हैं, की बहुत देर रोते और चिड़चिड़ापन होता है।

क्या करें? : बच्चे को सुबह कुछ नाश्ता खिलाकर स्कूल भेजें ताकि वो वहां प्रसन्नचित पहुंचे।

टिफिन में उससे दिखा कर उसके पसंद का समान रखें।

बच्चों को स्कूल भेजने की उम्र से पहले ही धीरे धीरे अपने हांथों के खाना सिखाएं।

2. उनका स्कूल में दिन शुरू होने से पहले उन्हें बेहतर नाश्ता करवा कर भेजें।

3. मां- टिफिन तो पसंद का ही भेजते हैं पर टिफिन फिनिष नहीं होता।

बच्चा – टिफिन खाऊं पूरा या खेलने जाऊं?

क्या करें? : अक्सर स्कूल में लंच टाइम 20-25 मिनिट का होता है, ऐसे में छोटे बच्चों को वो भोजन टिफिन में दीजिए जिसे इतने समय में खाना उनके लिए आसान है।

बहुत सूखा नाश्ता भी ना भेजें, गले में अटकता खाना बच्चे नहीं खा पाते।

रोटियों पराठा का रोल, या हाथ में पकड़ कर खाने वाली चीजें बच्चों को आसान लगती हैं।

4. उन्हें पीने के लिए शेक या फलों की स्मूदी दें।

यदि आप टिफिन में सलाद जैसा कुछ रखते हैं तो सभी कच्ची सब्जियों को बहुत पतला काटें।

और उन्हें एक डिप के साथ परोसें

(जैसे कि रेंच ड्रेसिंग, हुम्मस, बोर्सिन चीज़ स्प्रेड, गुआकामोल, क्रीम चीज़, सोया नट बटर)।

सेब जैसे फलों को छीलें और उन्हें थोड़ा भूरा होने से बचाने के लिए थोड़ा नींबू का रस डाल कर सील करने योग्य कंटेनर में भेजें।

संतरा, कीनू को पहले छील लें और सिर्फ स्लाइस पैक करें।

फलों या पनीर को छोटे क्यूब्स में काटें, और साथ में कांटा रखें।

5. मां- टिफिन में हर दिन क्या रखूं। बच्चा – आज फिर ये टिफिन, मुझे नहीं खाना।

क्या करें?: कोई भी मां इस एक काम को बड़े अच्छे से कर सकती है।

टिफिन देखने में आकर्षक लगेगी तो बच्चे का खाने का मन होगा।

6. सुनिश्चित करें कि आप अपने बच्चे को एक प्रोटीन, एक स्टार्च और एक फल या सब्ज़ी हर समय भोजन और नाश्ते में परोसें।

7. यदि बच्चा टिफिन के अलावा दिन के बाकी समय में प्रोटीन युक्त भोजन करेंगे तो उन्हें स्कूल में लो सुगर के थकान महसूस नहीं होगी।

बच्चे कम चिड़चिड़े रहेंगे।यह युक्तियां आपके स्कूल के समय को घर पर बेहतर बनाने में आपकी मदद करेंगी।

कई बार बच्चे मन नहीं होने पर या खाने का निश्चित समय नहीं होने पर भी खाना नहीं खाते।

Link में जानिए बच्चे तो किस समय खाना खाने बैठाएं

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Make precious life lessons

Let’s learn some precious life lessons from the project Rahul got at his school.

(Tuesday morning)

“Rahul,when is your science project submission date. “
“Mumma, it’s next Monday, we still have a week to finish.”
” Rahul, ask your classmates today, what are they making.”
” Why, Mumma?”
“Because, your’s should be the best.”

(Thursday morning)


“Rahul, did anyone deposite their project?”
“Yes, some have done. When will we do our project?”
” Don’t worry, I am there.”

(Saturday evening, after school)


” Rahul, don’t go for playing today, we have to do our project.”

(Sunday)


“Rahul, no playing, we have to decorate our project, it should look the best.”

(Monday, in school)


Teacher: ” Congratulations everyone, for finishing your project works on time. Please come and explain about your project.” Indeed Rahul’s project was well designed and presented.

 But was it needed?Now let’s look at the unseen part of it, to learn our precious life lessons.

Tuesday 2:00 pm, Sarita, Rahul’s mom, had finished all her work, googled all the possible topics for son’s project. She made a list of all the projects, which they can do.
Wednesday, she called some of her friends and relatives to enquire for the best topic to make the project. Then, struck off the common topics from her list.
Thursday 2:00 pm, she deleted the topics that were done by Rahul’s classmates.
Friday she collected all the requirements.
Saturday 2:00 pm, she arranged every thing to one place.Night, Sarita sat with Rahul, after finishing her daily chores. Rahul was sleepy by 11:00 pm so Sarita finished some portions, just to help Rahul.Sunday, They sat again, this time they had to hurry up. Sarita helped him, by finishing most of his work. Rahul’s work was not very neat, so Sarita did the finishing tough to the project.They finished it on time.Monday, Rahul was feeling proud as he was praised by one and all. 

Such a happy ending to the story of making a science project.

But, was it worth? Was it solving the purpose of project work? Was it by anyway helpful to the child? 


You all might not like it, but the answer is NO. A big NO. Was Sarita student of that class? The answer is again NO.

NO. A big NO

Precious life lessons


You can replace mother in this story with father or any other elder. Parent’s mindset puts so much pressure on the learning of the child. It is not Happy parenting. By helping child in work, school projects we are not giving them precious life lessons or stress free childhood. If they do not learn their life lessons, they will not be able to cope up with the ups and downs in life. As long as the effort is done by anyone other than the person it to was meant be, the effort is useless.
It’s not that a child of any age can do their work all alone.
I am just saying, 

BE THE GUIDE, DON’T BE ASSISTANT.

Help him by questions like,

  •  what do you think should be our topic?
  • From where can we get the informative material?
  • Will you just collect some information, then, we will together discuss on the best doable topic.
  • Can you collect the required material, that we have at home, make a list of things we need to buy or arrange. 

And many thought provoking questions like this. 
Let it be your child’s project. 
  

And most importantly, it is not required that it appears best, it should solve it’s purpose the most.

Haha, as a mother, I know, it is tough to control ourselves from taking over the task, but have patience, it is possible.

And believe me, as a teacher, I can assure you, their teacher will like it more, when it is done by your child and not you.

Please make every small experience, a precious learning for life. 

P.s. By making a project by his own, our child is taking small steps towards learning to handle his life.
If you agree to this thought, please like, comment, share and follow. And also comment if you disagree at any point.

We Parents make all efforts to give our child a Happy childhood. While do so, at times we overdo. Please read, To know how you can save a preschooler from stress of learning.

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